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Should Grades Be Based on Excellence or Effort?

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Should Grades Be Based on Excellence or Effort?

What kinds of grades do you generally get in your classes? Are you satisfied with them? Do you think your marks have been accurate reflections of your learning?

What do you think teachers should base student grades on: effort, ability, class participation, personal growth, work habits, final papers and exams, achievement, comparison to peers or something else?

In “No, You Don’t Get an A for Effort,” Adam Grant writes about why he believes grades should be about excellence — and why students have come to mistakenly expect to be rewarded for their hard work instead:

After 20 years of teaching, I thought I’d heard every argument in the book from students who wanted a better grade. But recently, at the end of a weeklong course with a light workload, multiple students had a new complaint: “My grade doesn’t reflect the effort I put into this course.”

High marks are for excellence, not grit. In the past, students understood that hard work was not sufficient; an A required great work. Yet today, many students expect to be rewarded for the quantity of their effort rather than the quality of their knowledge. In surveys, two-thirds of college students say that “trying hard” should be a factor in their grades, and a third think they should get at least a B just for showing up at (most) classes.

This isn’t Gen Z’s fault. It’s the result of a misunderstanding about one of the most popular educational theories.

More than a generation ago, the psychologist Carol Dweck published groundbreaking experiments that changed how many parents and teachers talk to kids. Praising kids for their abilities undermined their resilience, making them more likely to get discouraged or give up when they encountered setbacks. They developed what came to be known as a fixed mind-set: They thought that success depended on innate talent and that they didn’t have the right stuff. To persist and learn in the face of challenges, kids needed to believe that skills are malleable. And the best way to nurture this growth mind-set was to shift from praising intelligence to praising effort.

The idea of lauding persistence quickly made its way into viral articles, best-selling books and popular TED talks. It resonated with the Protestant work ethic and reinforced the American dream that with hard work, anyone could achieve success.

Psychologists have long found that rewarding effort cultivates a strong work ethic and reinforces learning. That’s especially important in a world that often favors naturals over strivers — and for students who weren’t born into comfort or don’t have a record of achievement. (And it’s far preferable to the other corrective: participation trophy culture, which celebrates kids for just showing up.)

The problem is that we’ve taken the practice of celebrating industriousness too far. We’ve gone from commending effort to treating it as an end in itself. We’ve taught a generation of kids that their worth is defined primarily by their work ethic. We’ve failed to remind them that working hard doesn’t guarantee doing a good job (let alone being a good person). And that does students a disservice.

The essay concludes:

Teachers and parents owe kids a more balanced message. There’s a reason we award Olympic medals to the athletes who swim the fastest, not the ones who train the hardest. What counts is not sheer effort but the progress and performance that result. Motivation is only one of multiple variables in the achievement equation. Ability, opportunity and luck count, too. Yes, you can get better at anything, but you can’t be great at everything.

The ideal response to a disappointing grade is not to complain that your diligence wasn’t rewarded. It’s to ask how you could have gotten a better return on your investment. Trying harder isn’t always the answer. Sometimes it’s working smarter, and other times it’s working on something else altogether.

Every teacher should be rooting for students to succeed. In my classes, students are assessed on the quality of their written essays, class participation, group presentations and final papers or exams. I make it clear that my goal is to give as many A’s as possible. But they’re not granted for effort itself; they’re earned through mastery of the material. The true measure of learning is not the time and energy you put in. It’s the knowledge and skills you take out.

Students, read the entire essay and then tell us:

  • What do you think student grades should be based on? How much, if at all, should effort and hard work factor in?

  • How important are grades to you? Do they motivate you to learn more or to work harder? If not, what other indicators or incentives might push you to be more successful in school?

  • Does your school have a consistent grading policy, or does each teacher use their own system? Are the grading criteria clear and transparent to all students, or does it sometimes feel as if the grading is random or mysterious?

  • Mr. Grant argues that A’s are for excellence, not for effort, writing: “The true measure of learning is not the time and energy you put in. It’s the knowledge and skills you take out.” Do you agree? How persuasive is his argument?

  • Mr. Grant notes that he is seeing a growing number of students complain, “My grade doesn’t reflect the effort I put into the course.” Does that observation resonate with your own experiences? Have you ever complained to a teacher about a grade? Why? Did your efforts result in a grade change?

  • What recommendations would you give your school to improve its grading system? What do you think your teachers need to understand about the expectations, motivations and learning of teenagers today?

Word of the Day: acerbic

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Word of the Day: acerbic

The word acerbic has appeared in 73 articles on NYTimes.com in the past year, including on May 8 in the obituary “Steve Albini, Studio Master of ’90s Rock and Beyond, Dies at 61” by Ben Sisario:

With a sharp vision for how a band should be recorded — as raw as possible — and an even sharper tongue for anything he deemed mediocre or compromised, Mr. Albini was a visionary in the studio and one of rock’s most acerbic wits.

… He also long maintained an impish zeal to provoke and offend. Big Black’s last, most acclaimed album, from 1987, has a typically unprintable title, and he once dismissed Nirvana — the group that later hired him to record the album “In Utero” (1993), at the peak of their fame — as nothing but “R.E.M. with a fuzzbox.”

Can you correctly use the word acerbic in a sentence?

Based on the definition and example provided, write a sentence using today’s Word of the Day and share it as a comment on this article. It is most important that your sentence makes sense and demonstrates that you understand the word’s definition, but we also encourage you to be creative and have fun.

If you want a better idea of how acerbic can be used in a sentence, read these usage examples on Vocabulary.com. You can also visit this guide to learn how to use IPA symbols to show how different words are pronounced.

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The Word of the Day is provided by Vocabulary.com. Learn more and see usage examples across a range of subjects in the Vocabulary.com Dictionary. See every Word of the Day in this column.

Southern California Wildfires

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Southern California Wildfires

Wildfires are raging out of control across Southern California, destroying homes and businesses and prompting thousands to evacuate.

The Times reports:

The most destructive wildfires in Los Angeles’s history have razed neighborhoods, forced desperate evacuations and threatened wealthy, iconic parts of the city — and they appeared far from being contained as firefighters strained against fierce winds and dry conditions.

The sight of beloved landmarks set against thick columns of smoke and eerie orange skies have created a new sense of vulnerability among residents who are used to fires, but not so much destruction, or so many burning at the same time so close to them.

A new wildfire in the Hollywood Hills threatened a densely populated part of the city. Other major fires — in the coastal Pacific Palisades neighborhood, in the suburban Pasadena area and in a rural stretch of the San Fernando Valley — were still burning out of control Thursday. Anxieties grew as more small fires flared up, even as many were quickly snuffed out.

What is your reaction to the images and news from Southern California? Have you or anyone you know been affected by the wildfires?

Tell us in the comments, and then take a look at these photos and maps to learn more about the wildfires and their impact. You can also find where to find shelter and how to stay safe as fires approach.


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Word of the Day: cacophony

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Word of the Day: cacophony

The word cacophony has appeared in 107 articles on NYTimes.com in the past year, including on Dec. 4 in the guest essay “Finding a Sense of Purpose and Harmony Onstage” by Gustavo Dudamel:

In many ways, the orchestra is the perfect metaphor for the relationship between the individual and society. As the conductor, I am directing the ensemble, and yet I am the only one who doesn’t actually produce any sound. I can share ideas and communicate a vision to the musicians, but I am nothing without them. Each one of us has our own part to play, and yet we also must listen to those around us to make sure that we are creating harmony, not cacophony. Even when we don’t agree with one another, we find a way to work together toward our common goal.

Can you correctly use the word cacophony in a sentence?

Based on the definition and example provided, write a sentence using today’s Word of the Day and share it as a comment on this article. It is most important that your sentence makes sense and demonstrates that you understand the word’s definition, but we also encourage you to be creative and have fun.

If you want a better idea of how cacophony can be used in a sentence, read these usage examples on Vocabulary.com. You can also visit this guide to learn how to use IPA symbols to show how different words are pronounced.

If you enjoy this daily challenge, try our vocabulary quizzes.


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The Word of the Day is provided by Vocabulary.com. Learn more and see usage examples across a range of subjects in the Vocabulary.com Dictionary. See every Word of the Day in this column.

What’s Going On in This Graph? | Jan. 15, 2025

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What’s Going On in This Graph? | Jan. 15, 2025

3. Below the response box, there is an option to click on “Email me when my comment is published.” This sends the link to your response which you can share with your teacher.

4. After you have posted, read what others have said, then respond to someone else by posting a comment. Use the “Reply” button to address that student directly.

On Wednesday, Jan. 15, teachers from our collaborator, the American Statistical Association, will facilitate this discussion from 9 a.m. to 2 p.m. Eastern time.

5. By Friday morning, Jan. 17, we will reveal more information about the graph, including a free link to the article that includes this graph, at the bottom of this post. We encourage you to post additional comments based on the article, possibly using statistical terms defined in the Stat Nuggets.

We’ll post more information here by Friday morning. Stay tuned!


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What’s Going On in This Picture? | Jan. 13, 2025

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What’s Going On in This Picture? | Jan. 13, 2025

1. After looking closely at the image above (or at the full-size image), think about these three questions:

2. Next, join the conversation by clicking on the comment button and posting in the box that opens on the right. (Students 13 and older are invited to comment, although teachers of younger students are welcome to post what their students have to say.)

3. After you have posted, try reading back to see what others have said, then respond to someone else by posting another comment. Use the “Reply” button or the @ symbol to address that student directly.

Each Monday, our collaborator, Visual Thinking Strategies, will facilitate a discussion from 9 a.m. to 2 p.m. Eastern time by paraphrasing comments and linking to responses to help students’ understanding go deeper. You might use their responses as models for your own.

4. On Thursday afternoons, we will reveal at the bottom of this post more information about the photo. How does reading the caption and learning its back story help you see the image differently?

We’ll post more information here on Thursday afternoon. Stay tuned!


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What Teenagers Are Saying About the New Year

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What Teenagers Are Saying About the New Year

Happy New Year from The Learning Network!

As 2024 ended and 2025 began, we invited teenagers in our writing prompts to reflect on the year that was and look forward to the one ahead. What resolutions and goals did they have for 2025? What good advice had they received that they’d like to apply to their lives in the year to come? What predictions could they make about how the world might be different this year? We’ve rounded up some of their responses below.

Thank you to those who shared their perspectives with us this week, including students from Winnacunnet High School in Hampton, N.H.; Nevada Union High School in Grass Valley, Calif.; and Minnesota.

Please note: Student comments have been lightly edited for length and clarity, but otherwise appear as they were originally submitted.

This year I feel more hopeful than I have in the past to keep my New Year’s resolution. My resolution is to spend less money on stupid things I don’t need (mainly fast food), and I’m going to measure that by only allowing myself to spend $60/month on fast food, clothes, and other nonnecessities until I go to college in August. The reason I feel like I am capable of doing this resolution this year is, I started to set goals for myself this past September (the start of the school year), and have since been able to complete most of them … If I forget about my goals and don’t constantly remind myself of why I am completing them, I will eventually just not do them and remain the same person I was at the beginning of the year. I think that you should always be trying to grow, and putting your list away can be a toxic barrier preventing you from achieving your best. This mindset is also why I feel like I can achieve my New Year’s resolution: I am all about grit and determination, not laziness.

Cecily, Minnesota

My New Year’s resolution is to run two miles 15 times a month, stay in the gym to work on basketball for 30 extra minutes, and to work out for an hour at least 10 times a month. I feel like I will be able to accomplish these goals if I dedicate myself to them. Other times when I set goals for myself, I never want to do them so that is why I never accomplish those goals. Taking the time for me to do what I want to do will be hard because even if I don’t want to do it, I will need to do it so I can be better than what I am now.

Tanner, Texas

My major goal this year is to take care of myself both mentally and physically. I have never really prioritized my health, and have put it on the back burner, telling myself I’ll make a change sooner or later, but before I know it, 12 months have passed and I’m saying, I’ll try again next year. The biggest problem I have is that I convince myself my health is not as important as that of those around me, and I spend my time making sure I please them without having a care for myself. This year I want to change that …

Milana, California

My New Year’s resolutions are: to get more sleep by going to bed earlier and waking up earlier. These resolutions are simple, realistic, and beneficial. Lack of sleep is the root of most of my problems regarding both athletic and academic performance. Waking up earlier stops me from rushing in the morning and forgetting things.

Louis, California

My resolution is to get at least 8 hours of sleep every night. I believe that this is an attainable goal because, a lot of the time, I stay up late scrolling on my phone. I need to hold myself accountable and put my phone away earlier. I will then see a change in my overall well-being and will be a better version of myself.

TL, Minnesota

One of my biggest New Year’s resolutions is to read more books. I want to read at least 20 books this year because I have bought so many that I haven’t gotten around to reading. I enjoy buying books at a higher rate than reading them, even though I want to read them. I just never find the time to read. Just like the article said, it’s supposed to be a gift to myself so I think that this is perfect for me. Reading is a gift to me and I would want to complete this task and try to do even better than 20.

Taylor, Minnesota

My main goal for 2025 is to keep my room cleaner. This ties into my other goal, which is to get rid of some of my clothes. I have a pretty big room covered in clothes because I have so many. Then when I try to pick out an outfit or look for a piece of clothing, they end up all over my floor and then I don’t have the motivation to pick them up! I think this is a possible and necessary goal for 2025.

Ella, Hampton

My New Year’s resolution is to graduate on time. To do this, I will make sure my grades are good, I have all my credits for high school, and to make sure that I’m not going to give up on high school because of missing work. I agree with the article when it states that a resolution has to be realistic and you have to want to do it. That’s why I chose this as my New Year’s resolution. It is both realistic and I want to do it.

AB, Minnesota

My New Year’s 2025 resolution is to really focus on softball so I can get a D1 scholarship and make my parents proud. I am also going to work out more so I can become a power hitter and become faster and get better at catching and pitching. I am also going to focus on school more, so I can get all A’s in every single class.

Kaci, Texas

My new resolution for this year is to make new friends, considering I am going off to college in the near future. This article has got me thinking about my future and what friends I will make along the way. Don’t get me wrong, I love my friends and I’m very grateful for them but I’m kinda nervous for when we all go off to college because I’ve had the same friends for the past 5 years. I’m scared because what if I don’t make connections or my roommate won’t like me? But I’m gonna put my best foot forward and think positive about how I will make new friendships along the way.

SH, Minnesota

I don’t believe in New Year’s resolutions. Now, I don’t think that there is necessarily anything wrong with them necessarily. I just feel that if there is something I want to change about myself, there isn’t a reason to hold off until the new year or try to accomplish it by the end of the year. If there is something I genuinely want to change about myself, whether that is eating healthier or working out more, I should just do it at my own pace as opposed to giving myself a goal I want to accomplish in a time frame.

Ryan, California

Don’t be scared to make mistakes, think of them as a positive thing. You will always learn something new.

Ashley, California

Start or end your day thinking about three things you are grateful for.

Kara, MA

One time a person told me that if you take consistent action toward your goals, learn from your mistakes and keep improving, you can take on any challenge on the road to success.

Joe, Grass Valley, CA

Just because you’re in the storm doesn’t mean the game is over, you can always find a medkit.

Charlie, Ma

Enjoy and strive for your own success, but don’t forget the community around you.

Cailee, Grass Valley

Be a good friend to yourself. Treat yourself as if it were a dear friend. We make progress with patience and calm, not criticism and meanness.

Kate, Los Angeles, California

In 200 years, no one’s going to remember who you are so live life to the fullest. Live how you want to, do the things you want to, and don’t be afraid of getting into a little trouble.

Noah, Grass Valley

The best advice I have ever come across is “everything in its own time.” This advice reminds me to be patient with time and to not rush into things. This year, I will let things flow how they should, and all my goals will come true at the right time. That is the mindset that I’m bringing with me this year, 2025.

Alexia, New Rochelle, New York

2025 will bring about a new set of slang terms and mannerisms like those we saw with Generation Alpha. Words like “rizz” and “fanum tax,” synonymous with the current youngest generation, will soon be usurped as content creators keep trying to make themselves more relevant by creating the “next big thing.” On the one hand, these terms are not usually outdated so quickly with regular use and will still stay in circulation past when Generation Alpha are no longer kids. However, currently, kids have shorter attention spans; thereby, creators need to come up with more content like these words which becomes a craze to stay in popularity. This rate of change is a way that “word of mouth” evolves because the language used a long time ago changed much less frequently than the language of the now which can be seen changing on a monthly or annual basis. Furthermore, by viewing this rate of change, one can predict that the terms being used by the youth will start changing much more rapidly, and 2025 will bring about a whole new set of slang.

Cormac, Minnesota

For me, 2025 will be very different. 2025 is the year where I begin my journey to be an adult. It’s the year when I start looking at colleges, start driving independently, finding ways to have income and ways to make money. In 2025, I’m only looking to better myself and find ways to improve myself from 2024 … This current school year, still traumatized from last year, I am never going back to “just passing is good mind-set.” I’m learning to apply myself by trying different methods and tips to learn.

R., Fountain Valley Hs

My prediction for the upcoming 2025 year is that people will want to focus on their well being mentally and physically. They will be less focused on succeeding in school, their careers, and just overall being fiscally responsible … I can see a wave of active healthy people who are willing and wanting to try new activities.

Ryan, FVHS

2025 will be a huge year for the video gaming industry. Big franchises, such as the Grand Theft Auto franchise, will be coming out with a new game, GTA6. Another big game coming out in 2025 is Subnautica 2. My thought is that, compared to 2024, 2025 will have many more important games and games in general. With the announcements of highly respected games, it’s safe to say that the video gaming industry will see even more people playing its games.

Matt, Minnesota


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Listen: ‘Loving Their Pets to Death’

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Listen: ‘Loving Their Pets to Death’

This transcript was created using speech recognition software. While it has been reviewed by human transcribers, it may contain errors. Please review the episode audio before quoting from this transcript and email transcripts@nytimes.com with any questions. [BARK]

sabrina tavernise

Uh-oh. [BARK]

Clementine, stop.

[BARK]

Oh, my gosh. Sorry.

katie thomas

She has thoughts.

sabrina tavernise

From “The New York Times,” I’m Sabrina Tavernise, and this is “The Daily.”

Over the past decade, the cost of veterinary care in the US has skyrocketed as health care for pets has come to look more like health care for people. Today, my colleague Katie Thomas on how vet care became a multi-billion dollar industry and the fraught emotional and financial landscape it has created for pet owners.

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It’s Friday, July 12th.

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Katie, welcome to our Friday episode.

katie thomas

Yeah, I’m excited.

sabrina tavernise

So, Katie, you recently wrote about something that I as a pet owner, and a lot of people on this team — also pet owners — can relate to. And that is that the cost of veterinary care has skyrocketed. Tell me how you came to this story.

katie thomas

Yeah. So a couple of years ago, my family and I, we got a new dog. We got a puppy, and his name was Roscoe. And he did great. The first year, he was a very healthy little dog. And then when he was about a year and a half old, he got very sick. And we learned that he had been born with a very serious liver defect. And our vet referred us to a bigger animal hospital, and that’s kind of when I entered this world that’s a new level of veterinary care that I hadn’t realized existed.

So as I was navigating this, I was wearing two hats. One was just as a pet owner and trying to figure out the right treatment for my dog. And then the other hat I was wearing is as the health care reporter, which is my full-time job. So I kept on noticing a lot of aspects of the veterinary world that, to me, were starting to feel very, very similar to the human health care world that I cover.

And as I started looking into this, I started learning just how much money there is, now, in the veterinary industry, and also how expensive this care has become over the last couple of decades. I learned that very quickly, these bills can start adding up to $5,000, $10,000, even $15,000.

sabrina tavernise

And how much have prices actually increased? I mean, it seems to me like a huge amount, but what are the numbers there?

katie thomas

So as we know, prices for all kinds of things are going up because we’ve seen inflation over the last couple of years. But vet care prices have risen much faster than the overall rate of inflation. My colleagues and I actually ran the numbers, and in the last decade, the price of services has risen about 30 percent. And in that same period, veterinary care has gone up by more than 60 percent.

sabrina tavernise

Why is that, Katie? I mean, that’s the question here. What’s going on?

katie thomas

So when I started reporting this out, I found that there were a number of factors that were contributing. And they’re all intertwined. One is just that the culture of owning a pet has changed. More and more people are owning pets. And there’s different surveys, but anywhere between 60 percent to 70 percent of American households have a pet. And as those of us who do have pets know, we kind see them more and more as members of the family.

I mean, one example is, dogs used to live outside, or sleep in a garage, or something. And now, there’s this one survey that I found that almost half of Americans sleep with their pet.

sabrina tavernise

I would never do that, Katie.

katie thomas

No, none of us would. And we just need to walk into any pet store to see how much money people are spending on pets for cute outfits, birthday cookies. When you go away, you don’t just leave them in a kennel, but there are now dog hotels. There’s this fancy one near me where they have a view of the Chicago River.

sabrina tavernise

Oh, my god.

katie thomas

You can pay extra for a river view.

sabrina tavernise

OK, I would never leave my dog in a dog hotel, though I did just send her to a boarding place where she got a bunch of training when I was on vacation. So I am feeling a little sheepish here. But it has gone crazy. I mean, we were talking to the team earlier, and I was saying I was overhearing someone on the street just walking, talking to their friend, having a conversation about dropping “her” off at daycare. And I couldn’t tell whether she was talking about a dog or a child.

katie thomas

Right, exactly.

sabrina tavernise

OK, so we are all pet owners now, or at least a majority of us are, so that bigger demand for services presumably causes prices to rise. Is that what’s going on here?

katie thomas

Yeah, that’s a part of it. But the big driver is also that there’s just been these remarkable advances in medicine for animals. And it’s kind of like what I saw with my own puppy. Historically, vets would help with really kind of basic things, like a cut on a paw, or a de-worming, or a spaying and neutering. But for anything life-threatening, like cancer or something like that, really, the only option that they had available to them was to put the animals to sleep and to give them a humane death.

But over the last decade, there’s just been huge leaps in what we can do for our pets. There’s been big steps in cancer care, very intricate and involved surgery, dermatology. There’s been some really big new drugs, for dogs in particular, to help with skin allergies. There’s physical therapy. There’s just so many options now available to pet owners to help their animals live longer and better lives.

For example, I spoke to this one vet who, she’s been working since the 1990s, and she told me this story about how her father was a human doctor. And back then, what she would do is she had a lot of dachshunds, and dachshunds often have bad backs, and she would sneak them into the human hospital after hours and into the MRI machine so she could check them out. And today, she has an MRI machine. And many animal hospitals have MRI machines for animals.

sabrina tavernise

So that’s really a measure of how things have changed even since the 1990s.

katie thomas

Yeah. And it’s pretty amazing and great that we have these options available for our pets, but it also costs a lot of money to do all of this new stuff, which brings me to another big change that I found in my reporting, which is, this has become very appealing to big businesses, because just remember, historically, veterinary offices were small businesses, and they were staffed by animal lovers, not business people. And that has made it an enticing target for investors, because they see an opportunity there.

sabrina tavernise

OK. So big business spots an opportunity here. So what happens?

katie thomas

So basically, big companies and private equity firms start buying up small chains and individual clinics. They pretty much go on an acquisition spree. One big example is the conglomerate Mars, which is probably best known for selling candy and also pet food.

sabrina tavernise

Little known fact. Mars is also a big dog food manufacturer, not just a candy bar maker.

katie thomas

Yes, it makes a lot of different dog foods. And it’s been in the pet world for a long time. But over the last several years, they’ve also bought up the big veterinary chain VCA. They also own Banfield, which is in a lot of the PetSmarts, which is a big pet store chain. They also own a specialty hospital chain called BluePearl.

And then in addition to that, a lot of private equity-backed firms have been buying small individual practices. That trend really peaked in 2021, for example. And so the situation that we have today is that a quarter of all primary care vet clinics are now owned by corporations, and 3/4 of specialty hospitals are owned by companies.

sabrina tavernise

And, Katie, how does this consolidation — in some cases, 3/4 of all clinics owned by big companies — how does that affect these high prices we’ve been talking about?

katie thomas

Well, I spoke to a number of vets who have worked in these corporate-owned clinics. And what they told me is that they are under increasing pressure to do things that basically drive up the cost of care for pet owners.

Some examples that they gave me is, they felt increasingly stressed and pressured to see more animals per day. Others told me, to a certain extent, veterinarians have always had some of their pay tied to how much revenue they bring into the practice.

But at these corporate-owned clinics, the pressure is even greater. They were being asked to order more tests. Or one veterinarian that I spoke to said that she was told she needs to get her cost per client higher. Or someone else said that someone needed training on getting a pet owner to yes. These are high-pressure sales tactics that you really don’t expect to see in a vet office. And some of these vets that I spoke to said that they felt pretty uncomfortable with that as well.

sabrina tavernise

So now there’s this doubt. It’s like, is my vet recommending this thing because my dog should have this thing, or is my vet recommending this thing because he needs to make a different bottom line than he used to?

katie thomas

Right. And when I spoke to vets, they were very clear that they only provide the care that they think is best for that particular animal. But there’s no denying that these incentives and pressures are there. And they say that there’s a lot of factors that pet owners don’t always appreciate.

One of them is, they’re very forward, public-facing, kind of almost like a retail store. They get Google reviews, Yelp reviews. And so they’re very worried about not providing the top-level care and perhaps getting eviscerated in reviews. And so sometimes, that can put pressure on them to make sure that they’ve done absolutely everything they can for an animal.

The last thing is that a lot of veterinarians do still own their own clinics. And they told me that they’re facing all of the same rising costs and pressures that any other small business owner is facing. And that includes paying a living wage for workers in a pretty tight labor market, the rising costs of prescription drugs and lab tests and other equipment. And they say that a lot of times, pet owners just see the high price tag and they blame the person in front of them, which is the veterinarian.

sabrina tavernise

OK, so the rise of this corporate consolidation we’ve been seeing has meant perhaps higher prices and has put more pressure on vets. But are there any upsides in it for us, for consumers? I mean, just one example from my old neighborhood in Washington, DC, there was a new chain that moved in that was 24 hours, and that was a great option for my very accident-prone dog. She suddenly had a couple of different options of places that we could go in the middle of the night if something happened.

katie thomas

For sure. I mean, anytime there’s more money available, you can invest in better services, nicer offices, nicer waiting rooms. There’s more money for better equipment and investing in some of these specialty services that we’ve been talking about. So there are definitely benefits to this.

But as I found in my reporting, even as vet care has really caught up in a lot of ways to human health care, there’s a lot of important ways that they’re different. And that can present some really difficult choices and some prickly moral choices for pet owners.

sabrina tavernise

We’ll be right back.

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So, Katie, let’s dig into the ways that pet care is actually different from human care, setting aside the fact that pets are not people. So talk to me about what these main differences are.

katie thomas

The biggest difference is how the pet care gets paid for. I’m not sure anyone in the US would say that health care is particularly affordable, but the fact of the matter is that most people do have health insurance that covers the bulk of their medical costs. And if you are in an emergency situation, hospitals are legally obligated to give you life-saving care and then sort out the bills later.

But that’s just not how things work in the vet world. Veterinarians don’t have the same obligation to treat, and so it’s almost entirely on the pet owner to pay the full amount of the bill basically up front and at the time of service out of pocket.

sabrina tavernise

So that is a big difference. But isn’t there pet insurance as well?

katie thomas

There is pet insurance, but a very small minority of pet owners actually have pet insurance, just about 4 percent. And it’s very different from the health insurance that most of us are familiar with. Some examples are that, with very few exceptions, you still have to front the money for the bill. And then you would submit that claim to your pet insurance, which will then decide whether that’s a legitimate claim and then they will reimburse you.

Generally, plans don’t cover preexisting conditions. They charge more for pets that are older. It’s kind of like the pre-Obamacare version of human health care. Many things that are now not allowed in the human health care world are still very much a feature of how pet insurance works.

And even if you have pet insurance, that doesn’t always mean that you can keep it. To take one example, Nationwide, which is one of the biggest providers of pet insurance in this country, recently said that the cost of pet care is getting so expensive that it had to discontinue the plans of 100,000 pet owners. And so that left a lot of these pet owners basically back where they had started, with having to cover the cost of the care themselves.

sabrina tavernise

And that’s, of course, presuming they can pay. I mean, I’m sure for a lot of people, their devotion to their animal notwithstanding, it’s just not possible to drop a few thousand dollars on these amazing, life-saving treatments. So are those people who can’t afford that just having to put their pets down? And what are those people doing?

katie thomas

And this is where this just gets extremely thorny and difficult. I think there’s a number of different answers. Yes, I think some people do have to put their animals to sleep or choose less expensive options. But when I talk to pet owners about this, many of them went to pretty extreme lengths in order to cover this care and to find a way to pay for it.

I spoke to people who dipped into their retirement funds. I spoke to somebody who donated blood plasma, someone else who took on a second job in order to pay for this. And many people also charge it on a regular credit card, like a visa, and then pay it off. But another option that a lot of pet owners end up going for is something called a medical credit card.

sabrina tavernise

And what exactly is that?

katie thomas

It’s a specialty credit card that’s offered at a lot of these veterinary clinics. It’s right there on the counter, often. And the way that these cards generally work is that there’s an introductory period — say, six months. And if you pay that off within that period, you don’t have to pay any interest at all. But if you don’t pay it off and you still have some debt at the end of that, the interest rate can be pretty serious.

sabrina tavernise

Like, how much?

katie thomas

Well, I spoke to this one pet owner. Her name is Heather Massey. And she shared her bills with me. And she’s paying 30 percent.

sabrina tavernise

Wow, so that’s high.

katie thomas

Yes, it is high. But you can also see why it’s tempting. You’re really struggling to figure out how you can pay off this pretty significant bill. And then this is an available option to you. And many people think that, hey, I can think I can do that. I can pay off that during that six months or something like that.

But Heather is not alone. I spoke to the company that she got her card through, Care Credit, and they told me that 80 percent of people who take out the card pay it off in time. But put another way, that means 1 in 5 people who take it out don’t pay it off within the introductory period.

sabrina tavernise

So a lot of people going into debt for their pets.

katie thomas

Yes.

sabrina tavernise

And can I just pause for a moment on that, Katie? I mean, these are dogs and cats. These are not our children. And yet we’re going into debt like this, trying to prolong their pretty short lives. It does seem kind of nuts, in a way. But at the same time, I’m imagining myself in that vet office, staring at the bill, and staring at a very sick Clementine. And I think I would have a really hard time not doing that myself, not taking on that debt. I can easily imagine myself doing it. It’s hard.

katie thomas

Yeah, it’s really hard. And I think we’re in a whole new world right now. The vets that I spoke to used to say that, really, the only option for a very sick animal was euthanasia. And now, they’re going into these exam rooms and offering pet owners so many other options to prolong the life of their dogs and cats.

But regardless of what options these pet owners choose, what’s happening is that they’re the ones who end up in the driver’s seat. The decision ultimately sits with them, and they’re now faced with this whole new set of ethical questions and big financial responsibilities that they really never had before.

sabrina tavernise

When there’s always another treatment to try and there’s a credit card to put it on, it feels, to the pet owner, like it’s their choice about whether their pet lives or dies.

katie thomas

Right. And the question comes up, just because you can, does that mean you should? And is that always in the best interest of the pet? It’s actually the question that I wrestled with with my own puppy. He got very sick. It turned out he had a very serious health problem. And so in our case, we learned that there was a surgery that could fix it — pretty expensive surgery, but we decided to go for it because he was young and had, potentially, a long dog’s life ahead of him.

Unfortunately, he experienced complications from the surgery and he didn’t actually make it. But I don’t regret having done it. And he got really great care.

My experience just really echoed what I heard from so many pet owners and veterinarians, that there’s really no easy answers to these very new questions that we’re all facing. You kind of have to sort out the risks and rewards of pet ownership. And in my case, I decided it was worth it to me. And I recently got a new dog. So here we go again.

sabrina tavernise

Katie, thank you.

katie thomas

Thanks for having me.

sabrina tavernise

We’ll be right back.

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Here’s what else you should know today. On Thursday night, amid growing doubts about his age and mental fitness, President Biden wrapped up a summit of NATO leaders in Washington —

archived recording (joe biden)

And now, I want to hand it over to the president of Ukraine, who has as much courage as he has determination. Ladies and gentlemen, President Putin.

sabrina tavernise

— by mistakenly introducing the president of Ukraine as the president of Russia.

archived recording (joe biden)

President Putin. He’s going to beat President Putin. President Zelenskyy.

sabrina tavernise

Later —

archived recording (joe biden)

With that, I’ll take your questions. I’ve been given a list of people to call on here.

sabrina tavernise

— Biden held a news conference that was widely seen as a crucial test of his stamina and coherence. In his first answer, he once again stumbled when referring to his own vice president.

archived recording (joe biden)

Look, I wouldn’t have picked Vice President Trump to be vice president, so I think she was not qualified to be president. So let’s start there.

sabrina tavernise

But over the next hour, Biden spoke with fluency and command about the war in Gaza, America’s policy toward China, and his relationship with Russian President Vladimir Putin. And when pressed on his age and ability to serve a second term, Biden said he had no reservations.

archived recording (joe biden)

Every single day, I’m surrounded by good docs. If they think there’s a problem, I promise you — or even if they don’t think it’s a problem, they think I should have a neurological exam again, I’ll do it. No one’s suggesting that to me now.

sabrina tavernise

Still, when the news conference was over, three more House Democrats called on Biden to step aside as nominee. As of Thursday night, 18 congressional Democrats have asked Biden to end his campaign.

A quick reminder to catch a new episode of “The Interview” right here tomorrow. This week, Lulu Garcia-Navarro talks with Robert Putnam, the author of “Bowling Alone.” For decades, he’s been warning about the decline of American community and what that means for our democracy.

robert putnam

We’re not going to fix all these problems in America — polarization, inequality, social isolation — until we start feeling we have an obligation to care for other people. And that’s not easy.

sabrina tavernise

Today’s episode was produced by Olivia Natt, Clare Toeniskoetter, and Rikki Novetsky. It was edited by Lexie Diao and Devon Taylor with research help from Susan Lee. Contains original music by Dan Powell and Rowan Niemisto, and was engineered by Alyssa Moxley.

Our theme music is by Jim Brunberg and Ben Landsverk of Wonderly. Special thanks to Zuzu, Piper, Tiger, Chichi, Zadie, Toby, Gerald, Cosmo, and Clementine. That’s it for “The Daily.” I’m Sabrina Tavernise. See you on Monday.

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Have You Ever Had a Friendship Breakup?

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Have You Ever Had a Friendship Breakup?

There’s a saying that “friends come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime.” What does that mean to you? Has it been true of your friendships?

Have you ever experienced the ending of a friendship or witnessed someone else go through that process? If so, what feelings came up for you?

In “Why Friendship Breakups Hurt So Much,” Katie Mogg and Catherine Pearson explain, with the help of experts like Beverley Fehr, a social psychologist at the University of Winnipeg who studies close relationships, what makes these endings so painful:

While friendships sometimes end because of a “cataclysmic” event — a betrayal, for instance — more often, they tend to simply peter out, Dr. Fehr said. Ghosting can happen among friends, too.

A friendship breakup can leave both parties adrift, and the person each of the friends would typically share their deepest feelings with isn’t there to help them process the hurt.

That was the case for Nate Douty, a 23-year-old student at Stephen F. Austin State University in Nacogdoches, Texas, who recently lost a treasured friendship. “It did feel like I was alone because no one really understood the type of pain I was going through,” Mr. Douty said.

After Mr. Douty met his former friend through Instagram last year, they “became brothers almost instantly,” he said. They texted around the clock, discussing everything, especially their shared interest in football.

But after a period of conflict, his friend began to gradually withdraw from the relationship, Mr. Douty said. By mid-October, it was clear the friendship was over.

“It hurt as much as any relationship breakup I had ever had, probably even worse,” said Mr. Douty, who said he struggled to eat and focus on school in the wake of the breakup. “I cried for days, even weeks,” he added.

The article continues with advice on how to end friendships with compassion:

Barbie Atkinson, a licensed professional counselor in Houston who offers friendship counseling in her practice, tends to err on the side of openness, though she acknowledged how uncomfortable that could be for both parties. She generally favors a conversation — either face-to-face or over the phone — but even a thoughtful email can sometimes suffice. “The clearest path is usually straight through,” she said of the direct approach.

If you feel your friend is slipping away and hope to understand why, you might ask something like: “I’ve noticed we’ve been less connected lately, and I’m wondering how you’re doing?” Ms. Atkinson suggested. Leading with questions can help make room for open dialogue, rather than trying to force a resolution, she added.

Students, read the entire article and then tell us:

  • Have you ever had a friendship grow more distant or even come to an end? If so, what happened? With the benefit of hindsight, is there anything you would have done differently?

  • How much do you agree with the idea that friendship breakups are often as difficult as romantic breakups are?

  • What do you think makes the ending of friendships so painful? Do you agree with the experts who say it is because of the ambiguity of the loss and that people don’t receive as much support for these kinds of breakups?

  • The article offers advice on how to minimize the pain that comes with the end of a friendship. What do you think about these tips? Are there any you would add, especially for others your age?

  • What have you learned through making, keeping and letting go of friends? If you have ever had a friendship end, what did you learn about yourself or relationships in general from that experience?


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Word of the Day: boutonniere

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Word of the Day: boutonniere

The word boutonniere has appeared in four articles on NYTimes.com in the past year, including on Oct. 18 in the Vows column “Before the First Kiss, Plenty of Drives Home” by Tammy LaGorce:

At their Oct. 5 wedding, the couple promised to love each other with their whole hearts, follow each other for life and strengthen each other in times of weakness. The ceremony was composed of chanting in Tigrinya and prayers in English. Their 200 guests filled the church, while about a dozen more unexpected attendees from the church community watched the two-hour ceremony on a video screen in the church basement.

Ms. DeGroot-Lutzner, who wanted “something vintage that was thrifted,” wore a white dress sewn by her friend Sarah Culbertson. On a shopping trip to upstate New York, she found two dresses she loved. Ms. Culbertson sewed parts of them together for the finished product, a strapless floor-length gown with a bustle and train. A veil covered her face as she entered the church, escorted by her father. Mr. Seyoum wore a tuxedo adorned with a large boutonniere of colorful dried flowers.

Can you correctly use the word boutonniere in a sentence?

Based on the definition and example provided, write a sentence using today’s Word of the Day and share it as a comment on this article. It is most important that your sentence makes sense and demonstrates that you understand the word’s definition, but we also encourage you to be creative and have fun.

If you want a better idea of how boutonniere can be used in a sentence, read these usage examples on Vocabulary.com. You can also visit this guide to learn how to use IPA symbols to show how different words are pronounced.

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